Do you compare yourself to what you used to be in the past and then feel bad about where you are at?
I have a new client who looks back in the past and looks at herself now and feels pretty crappy about where she is at.
The question she asks herself often is
“How did I allow myself to get here?”
Have you ever asked yourself that question around a certain area of your life, where you are disappointed in where you are at now in this present moment?
If you have, let me explain what that does vibrationally to you.
I have heard the phrase “Plan for the worst & hope for the best” many times over the years. I must admit… I don’t agree with this phrase! I cringe when I hear it and say “no no no, that’s not the way to manifest what we desire to have in our lives!”
To me, it has a negative connotation to it. (And for those of you who know me, I am all about embracing a positive attitude and setting your positive intentions!)
First of all, if we are “planning for the worst”, we are actually allowing our minds to go ‘there’ — ‘there’ being the ‘worst case scenario’ of what could happen to us. We are essentially planting a seed … a bad seed, a negative seed. And what happens to seeds when you nourish them by giving them attention?